Frank and I are in the middle of doing a major makeover of our bedroom. It’s the one room in this house that we’ve never done much with. A few years ago we painted it, but we never got much further than that. Our room became the repository for Crap Which Guests Are Not to See. It became a 13’11″ x 12’10″ junk drawer, complete with the furniture that we’ve had since our first year of marriage 16 years ago and a rickety, half-dead entertainment center that was once in the living room, then was used in the kids’ playroom for a couple of years. I knew it was time to quit putting off the chore when Frank started putting the moves on me and I was too distracted by imagining paint colors to notice. “What do you think about taupe?” is never a good response to, “Does that feel good, baby?”

Ahem.

We got busy in the girls’ room last weekend. That soooo did not sound right. What I mean is that we started our streak of home improvement in the girls’ room last weekend. You might remember the last makeover of that room from a couple of years ago that took it from this:

to this:

 Moving Kyra into her own room was her birthday present that year. She said that she wanted a pink and brown bedroom, and Frank and I ran with that as our starting point. The next year, Kyra was kind enough to give up having her own space to make room for my sister moving in. When we moved Kaelyn into the bedroom, we had to purchase a huge wardrobe to accommodate her clothes. That and the addition of Kaelyn’s bed made the colors in the girls’ room feel much too heavy. It seemed like it was always dark in there, and it always felt crowded no matter how we arranged the furniture – even when we bunked the girls’ beds instead of leaving them separate.

We spent nearly all of last weekend getting this Poop and Pepto situation taken care of. We still have a bit of decorating left to do, but the major work is done. I have an easy project planned to do with the kids to make some art for the walls above the girls’ beds, and we still have to figure out what to do with the rest of the empty wall space.Excuse the crappy photos that I snapped in haste with my iPad; I’ll take better ones and get them posted soon. Still, you can get a good idea of what their room looks like now:

We took the bifold doors down from the closet and put up a curtain, instead. The few inches of space that gives makes all the difference. That's a fabric shower curtain, by the way.

We love the airiness and color scheme that we chose for their room. We loved it so much that we decided to use a similar palette for our own room. So, we’re redecorating. As in, RIGHT NOW; I have paint splatters all over my hands and clothes. I should be busy doing something purposeful, but I thought that writing was more important. I have priorities, dammit.

On our To Do List -

  1. declutter (DEAR GOD, THE CLUTTER)
  2. move out the exercise bike handy place to hang clothes
  3. ripping up and disposing of the old carpet
  4. refinishing the old wardrobe
  5. buying a new dresser (to be used as a TV shrine/storage for papers/camera stuff/office supplies/other random junk)
  6. refinishing the dresser we found
  7. painting
  8. installing a new ceiling fan
  9. installing the new carpet
  10. putting the new storage cubes together for the “office” corner of the room
  11. dragging everything back in and figuring out a good arrangement
  12. decorating with the few items we’ve already purchased. We still need to find a few pieces of wall art and need to print selected family photos to frame and hang.

We’re somewhere between 7 and 8. While the first coat of paint dries, Frank is in the room installing the new ceiling fan. I’m sitting here hogging up the kids’ computer and eating chicken.

Strike that – I’d better get back in there and help Frank. I just heard him yell out that he lost his nuts.

I do hope that he was talking about the ones needed to brace the fan in place.

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Today, I am 34. Now is a good time to send gifts of cash, fattening foodstuffs, stupid t-shirts, or anything from Think Geek or KnockKnock Stuff.

Okay, fine. I’ll settle for proclamations of how gangsta I am. Word.

I’ll be back next week to tell you all about:

  • various room makeovers around the house.
  • aging. AGING! MID-LIFE CRISIS! It’s more like a mid-life impatience for our next step up, which most days results in me making the Cameron-Frye-goes-comatose face two or three or twenty times a day.
  • aging – the kids not me. MIDDLE SCHOOL. I shudder.
  • twelve young women who inspire me more than I think they realize they do.
  • marriage – I’m going to go all squishy on you about Frank and what I think makes our marriage work. It doesn’t have anything to with his mad culinary skills. Well, not much, maybe.

(The video was a gift from my Pakistanihomie, Faiqa. Faiqa, I’d eat fried chicken and hummus together with you any day.)

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Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow

February 1, 2012

Yesterday, I attended a virtual awards ceremony on Twitter. It was hosted by WEGOHealth.com, which is a powerful social media network for health activists. A few weeks ago, fellow blogger Keiko had nominated me for the Best Affirmation Post award* for my post “The Truth About Trying.” Out of 15 nominees, the WEGO editorial team [...]

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A Different World

January 17, 2012

Today on Aiming Low, Dresden asked, “Who would play you in the movie version of your life?“  I haven’t thought about this peculiarity recently, but years ago when the show was still popular, I’d have a lot of people tell me that I looked a lot like Cree Summer. Most of you probably just cocked [...]

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Friends

January 16, 2012

I am so lucky to have friends like you guys. I’m glad that I finally said something about my hurt feelings, because my posse once again came through for me. Your hugs and support were felt, and I appreciate them. Sometimes it’s hard to remember (at least for me) that if you could use some [...]

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Hurt Feelings

January 12, 2012

I’m just putting out there that this is how I’ve been feeling: Even gangstas and rappers can have hurt feelings.I can’t really get into the specifics about the situation, but I feel the need to talk about the general malaise of my heartsickness. It sucks. It’s not just one steely knifed stab wound that will [...]

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The Wisdom of Good Clothing

January 10, 2012

This morning while in the closet, I gazed longingly at Frank’s comfortably roomy sweatsuits, and then sighed and resigned myself to wear the teacher-apropos slacks and blouse. Maybe my slacks were maternity pants and perhaps “blouse” is far too dressy a word to apply to the three-sizes too big, button-up, striped sack of fabric, but [...]

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