The Surrogacy Files

I was pregnant with and delivered a white baby. Word. This is about my attempts to help other couples start their families.

How Your Level of Emotional Infertility Affects Your Support Needs in the ALI Community

When I began writing about the current state of the ALI community on Monday, I thought that I would be able to round out what I had to say in just one additional post. In part because of the amazing discussion that happened in the comments of the first post, I find that I have …

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Mental Infertility and Its Impact on the Adoption, Loss, and Infertility (ALI) Community

I didn’t think that I would find the need to make commentary on the disarray in which the Adoption, Loss, and Infertility (ALI) community has currently found itself. My initial reaction was to feel torn. I can easily see both sides of the coin. I needed to sit with my thoughts a bit longer to …

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Evolution from Superwoman to Gangsta

As we’re in the midst of the last hours of 2011, t’s time to take that customary look back through the year. 2011 didn’t deliver any major sweeping changes to my everyday life. Baby Me job, same house, same big-headed husband and goofy children. 2011 also didn’t deliver any babies, and that’s where the change …

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Sock It to Me Capstone

(If you’re reading this through a reader, please do me a solid and click through today. I’ve finally made it pretty here so things look quite different. Please let me know if everything looks okay or if there’s something I need to fix. ‘preciate it!) ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: I like writing my response to the Sock It …

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How Not to Join a Message Board

Because I take my job as moderator seriously on Surrogate Mothers Online, I don’t usually dish on the drama that sometimes happens over there. But as it pertains to the subject of tonight’s post and is mostly about me, I’m dishin’. So. A couple of weeks ago, we had a new member who almost immediately started …

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